5 REASONS WHY PEOPLE LOSE THE TASTE OF LOVE IN THEIR RELATIONSHIPS by Stephen Wise
When it comes the human
health, Loss of smell and taste may result from polyps in the nasal or sinus
cavities, hormonal disturbances, or dental problems. They can also be caused by
prolonged exposure to certain chemicals such as insecticides, and by some
medicines. ... It impairs the ability to identify odors and diminishes the
sense of taste.
On the other hand, in our
love and relationship life, if the taste of our love is lost in our
relationships, it could result to so many social and psychological problems
like infidelity, domestic violence, killing, etc. and these dilemmas are caused
by so many factors that are not healthy to our relationship. Without going more
deep, I will shine a little light on some of the major things that can cause us
to lose the taste of love in our relationships:
TRUST
ISSUES: The day I was standing next to use the ATM machine, I
watched the woman counting her money immediately the ATM machine dispensed the
cash, that alone made me to know that actually some people are battling with
trust issues. Lack or loss of trust is one of the most harmful contagions to a
couple’s long-term success. Without trust, a relationship misses two of the key
anchors to a strong bond: safety and security. Trust issues may include factors
such as jealousy, possessiveness, unreasonable rigidity, emotional infidelity,
physical/sexual infidelity, relational game playing, lack of reliability and
dependability, lack of emotional support, lack of financial compatibility, and
lack of mutually-supportive goals.
If you believe trust is a
major issue in your relationship (or was in your former relationship), examine
whether the lack of trust is based on a pattern of evidence (such as
significant broken promises), or mostly subjective emotions (such jealousy
without proof). Consider honestly whether the lack of trust is based on
tangible substance or unjustified fears.
GRUDGE
BEARING: This is an act of maintaining a feeling of ill will
or resentment toward someone. ‘a grudge-bearing person will stop at nothing to
exact his revenge’. Something that happened decades is still in your heart. The
same heart you use to love is same heart you harbor grudges. In my book “You
Too Can Be Happy” I wrote in chapter 3 https://www.amazon.com/You-too-can-Be-Happy-ebook/dp/B07P6RKKM7/ref,
that resentments embody a basic choice to refuse to forgive. It carries an
unwillingness to let bygones be bygones, and bury the hatchet. We review and
rehash our painful past, even as we profess to want to let go of it. We do so
because, we believe the illusion that by belaboring our resentment, we will
somehow achieve the justice we believe we are due. Unforgiveness is a happiness
killer. It kills your relationship. When you allow it to exist, you seize to
feel the taste of love in your marriage or relationship.
MY
DEAR ‘EGO’: This the called ‘ego’ is an ambiguous term. It found
in every individual and difficult to explain how it occurs in individual’s life.
Ego is of two type, according to my research, Egocentric infallibility: The natural tendency to think that our
beliefs are true because we believe them. Egocentric
righteousness: The natural tendency to feel superior in the light of our
confidence that we are in the possession of THE TRUTH.
An egocentric person may
become obsessed with them. Egocentric people often show a lack of empathy for
others. They cannot see things from a different point of view than their own.
... Being egocentric can cause people to make awkward relationship and marriage
errors.
Being with an egocentric
person exposes you to these listed feelings below:
o
Low self-worth. ...
o
Self-doubt. ...
o
Confusion. ...
o
Sadness. ...
o
Anger. ...
o
Resentment.
SELF-CENTEREDNESS: A
self-centered person is excessively concerned with himself and his own needs.
He's selfish. ... People like that are self-centered: as the word suggests,
they are overly centered on themselves. Self-centered people tend to ignore the
needs of others and only do what's best for them. A self-centered boyfriend
or girlfriend always view self as better than others, including you. Some
people are so preoccupied by their own opinions, self-image, and appearance
that she/he believe he/she breathe rarified air. Self-centered persons view
themselves as a special breed, someone whom others should look up to and
acknowledge as special. Self-centered life is detrimental to a happy
relationship. Everybody is looking up to
a happy relationship. We often pray for a man or woman who will love only us,
not actually one who will understand and tolerate us even in our imperfections.
The reason why so many relationships lost taste is because we fail to consider
that problems of individual ill manners must be seen. It’s only when we take
cognizant of this fact that we can be able to apply wisdom in other to
accommodate. And deal with our different ill manners in other to live and love.
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